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Arrogance

There is something that most of has, yes it is arrogance. But do you know the scary thing about this thing is? That most of the arrogance people dont notice it!

It is the thing that split people up, it is the thing that prevent progress in life. Yes, i think arrogance have lots of negative effects in life. (We ask Allah to save us from this arrogancy)

Why i say that arrogancy can have negative effects?

1. Delusion

You think that you progress in life, after you achieve certain achievement you feel that you already did a really really amazing thing. And then, you start comparing yourself to others, now here the arrogancy starts. You realize that oh everyone arent achieving as you did. You get deluded, amazed at yourself. After that, you start to stop working for achievment thinking that you’ve done enough.

But do you know? When you are looking down at others, actually other people have some achievement too. You just dont know yet, and yes you will be embarassed when you see the people you’ved looked down had achieved something.

2. Prevent progress in life

Yes, when you are being arrogance. You feel that only you who has the best opinion. Only you that can do that job. You dont believe in other’s capability to do things. You start judging other people’s life.

“Oh look, he wastes his time” “Oh look she doesnt wear her scarf” “Oh look these bunch of people dont work hard like i always did”

So prejudices fill your own mind!You dont find any kinds in other person! Oh it’s only you who is right, others are wrong. Indeed this is a plain error.

Now there is a person like this, he starts busy himself with the mistakes of other, but he forgets his own mistakes. When he began always thinking and judging others, he forgot that there is something that has more right to be judged and evaluated : his own self!!!!! So when he doesnt start evaluating himself, he stops to grow naudzubillah.

What are the signs of arrogance?

1. He feels that only he that is right

2. He likes to cut other people conversation. This is because he doesnt any value in other’s words.

3. He doesnt give any value to other’s opinion. He thinks that his opinion is always the best.

4. Looking down at others.

So our prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam has told us the right thing. Arrogance is denying the truth and looking down at other people. I ask Allah to guard us from this evil thing, may Allah guide me and all of muslimiin.

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Procrastination

You keep waiting, while you know that now is the best moment. You keep waiting, fear of failure, fear of change, but you see now or tomorrow the change itself will come whether you like it or not. So what are you waiting for? Go for your dream, make your plan NOW, I know you can, and if you make some mistakes in the path, at least you have achieved something instead of wasting your time thinking about the uncertain. As long as your in the right path, there’s nothing to worry about. And as Muslims, remember the greatest of greatest dream for us – The Heaven

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Lughotuna Al-‘Arabiyah

Inilah alasan bagimu -wahai saudara muslimku- mengapa kau harus mempelajari bahasa Arab ini.

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  1. Bahasa Al-Quranul Karim Bahasa Arab

Tidakkah engkau perhatikan saudaraku bahwasanya Al-Quran, kitab yang penuh dengan berkah ini berbahasa Arab. Tidakkah engkau ingin membaca pesan-pesan dari Allah ta’ala dengan bahasa aslinya yang ia turunkan? Sungguh barangsiapa yang membacanya dengan bahasa aslinya akan menemukan kelezatan yang berbeda dari hanya membaca terjemahannya.

إِنَّا أَنْزَلْنَاهُ قُرْآنًا عَرَبِيًّا لَعَلَّكُمْ تَعْقِلُونَ


Sesungguhnya Kami menurunkannya berupa Al Quran dengan berbahasa Arab, agar kamu memahaminya. (Yusuf:2)

Barangsiapa yang membacanya dengan bahasa Arab, akan lebih mudah untuk mentadabburinya, merenunginya, dan berinteraksi dengannya. Maka marilah saudaraku kita sama-sama mempelajari bahasa yang mulia ini.

2.  Bahasa Nabi Kita Shallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam

 Nabi kita Nabi Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam, bahkan dilahirkan di Arab. Maka suatu keanehan bagi mereka yang membenci bahasa Arab dan budayanya, sungguh aneh. Bayangkan ketika kita memahami bahasa Arab maka kita dapat memahami hadits Nabi Shaallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam. Kita tidak akan terombang-ambing dengan terjemahan-terjemahan yang berbeda diantara pihak-pihak yang ada. Maka tidakkah kita ingin memahami sabda-sabda Nabi kita Shallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam dengan lebih baik? Tentu kita ingin.

Katakanlah (hai Muhāmmad), jika kalian (benar-benar) mencintai Allâh maka ikutilah aku, niscaya Allah akan mencintai kalian dan Allah akan mengampuni dosa-dosa kalian, dan Allah Māhapengampun lagi Mahapenyayang” (QS. Al-‘Imrân: 31)

3. Bahasa Arab itu Indah

Jika kita perhatikan saudara-saudaraku, bahasa Arab adalah bahasa yang sangat indah. Dari yang penulis perhatikan, struktur dasar yang ada pada setiap kata kerja kebanyakan hanya terdiri dari 3 huruf, ka-ta-ba = menulis, fa-‘a-la = melakukan, dza-ha-ba= pergi dan dari 3 huruf itulah dapat dikembangkan menjadi pola-pola kalimat yang lebih tinggi.

Dan tidakkah terpikir oleh kita sekalian, rasanya berbeda ketika kita mendengarkan salah satu Qori’ yang indah seperti As-Sudais, Salah Bukhatir, Shuraim, bacaan mereka lebih indah didengar dan direnungi daripada lagu-lagu yang tersebar di zaman modern ini. Inilah salah bukti bahwa bahasa Arab ialah bahasa yang indah, bahasa yang dapat menyentuh hati manusia.

 

 

 

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A thing called: Habit

Hi guys, so i just know that there was someone who “liked” my previous article(whaaat? So happy 🙂 ) Then it sparked something in me-a desire, what kind of desire? Desire to write.

About habits, i mean like everything that we do is habits right? What do we do after waking up? What time we go to bed? Or maybe to the little thing about how we eat. We are our habits.  So i think to master our habits is one of the best thing we  can do.

 Sometimes when we see other’s success or victory, we feel upset and say why cant i do something like he did? But you missed the entire point : 

The success of someone is his/her repetitions in doing something 

We tend to not be patience in ourselves : a love for an easy life. But can you imagine how can a writer finish his book by not touching his keyboard in order to write. Every successful people once were like us, they were the average people but what they made themselves like themselves right now are rather what they did.

I read malcolm x’s quotes which goes around something like this :

If you see someone being success but you aren’t it means that there is something that they do that you dont do it. 

So it’s all about action man! What i’m trying to do right now is to try to change my habits gradually, when you finish mastering one habit, continue to another one! And guys, let me tell you this : Dont try to develop multiple habits at one time because when you do it, the thing that gonna happen is that at one day you will fail to do all of that habits, and then you think you should start small but after a while you’re not patience enough and you go back trying to develop those habits at one time. It’s a waste of time then :v 

So buckle up your seatbealts boys! We’re going on a journey to the valley of mastering habits-our noble purpose.

Dont let yourself crushed by what comfort of what you want now that what you want best for the future.

*notes : sorry if there is any mistakes, comments and critics are invited!